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給李老師的信劉慧民 2012年7月2 (北京)
「能和您相遇，真的非常非常高興、快樂，也很感動，感謝上帝，我如此幸運，遇到您這位老師，能給我如此感動、感慨，感覺世界如此美麗、美好！ 您的平和、豐富、睿智、善良讓我如此喜歡您，我想人生中有您這位良師真很幸運。 您知道嗎，從26號晚上起，我每晚只睡4至5個小時，從沒一個老師讓我如此激動，當然也跟我長時間封閉自己有關。您在我面前像打開了世外桃園之門，又看到了如此美麗的天地。謝謝您的引領，我將從此真正走上了美麗快樂媽媽之路，不僅和我的女兒一起快樂成長，也盡力去幫助更多需要幫助的媽媽。 打動我的是您的魅力，您的真誠、誠信、敬業、有愛心、毅力無不讓我敬佩。這對我以後的生活和事業都是一個多麼大的激勵，很久了，很多事情讓我心灰意冷，來到這裏後，您和我們團隊的隊員又點燃了我的熱情，我從此將變成你們快樂團隊的一員：快樂、幸福、美麗，永遠年輕，每天心懷感恩！！！ -
貼心好朋友張薇
您好！感謝您這幾天的課程，是這個課程讓我和女兒的關係更近了，讓我們有了做心貼心好朋友的基礎。是您讓我學到了聽、說、問的方法，找出了自己的問題。今天是我女兒9歲生日，我和女兒在此衷心地感謝您。感謝您讓送給我女兒這樣一份生日厚禮。 -
愛心和理論范靖瑜
親愛的慧蘭老師： 謝謝您！ 以前只是在微博中感覺您的愛心和理論，但是這5天才真真正正地感受到你的巨大魔力！我真很為自己決定來上親子教練課的行為感到肯定和高興，因為這才讓我幸運地和您相遇。 您的笑容、您的從容、您敏睿的思緒和充滿愛心的教練技術給了我很大的信心和啟發，讓我很浮燥和焦慮沉靜了下來。從來沒有想過自己做為一個母親會對孩子欠缺那麼多的愛心和耐心，只是一味地強求孩子按著自己要求的目標來長大，而忽視了每一個孩子都有她獨特的一面，有她自己的優點。她是上天賜予的寶貝，我要更加用同理心和她交流…… 通過您的教練技巧，我逐漸明了今後的方向，用心和真誠的態度，做好孩子人生路上的教練。這一些，都是您的給予，在您的身上，我體會到了什麼是愛，什麼是付出，什麼是一個優秀教練！ 我愛你，老師！你保重身體！注意休息！ 以後常保持聯絡！ -
改變自己吳國強(4歲及8歲女兒的爸爸)
李教練專業、和藹、幽默、友善、風趣。她教導我子女不聽話，不單是子女的問題，若要改變子女的行為，先要改變自己，以前我是不知道的，現在我教子女好多了。 -
多從孩子或同事的角度想Agnes (3歲孩子的媽媽)
"我發現自己育兒和做人太過著眼於对與錯，易起衝突，影响親子和人际关係.我從今以後要多從孩子或同事的角度想事情，說話的態度要比前温柔！我亦不要只重结果而忽畧過程." -
The BEST parenting courseIrene (a mother of a five year old boy)
This is the BEST parenting course I have ever joined! It is so insightful, inspiring and totally exceeds my expectation. "Being a coach" to my son is really a new, yet important, concept to me. Our child is the gift from God and Coach Lee always reminds us our role is to assist him to excel his potential (not follow exactly what we want him to be). We are the one who offer him guidance and direction but NOT instruction. To this end, Coach Lee has coached us how to align goal with our kids, how to make our conversation more positive and effective, how to ask inspiring question and how to be an open-minded parents....all these skills are practical, useful and you know, it works well when I apply these skill sets while interacting with my son. I would say thank you to Coach Lee as she is a fantastic coach and has offered us invaluable way of thinking which I have never thought of. Million Thanks! -
Expertise on coaching parentsPrincipal Cheung LM
Cognitio College (Hong Kong)Coach Lee was invited to our S1 parents’ night on Sept 23, 2011 to give parents a talk on how to equip themselves to assist the development of their children. Instead of directly transmitting her extensive knowledge on the topic, she adopted an interactive mode, actively engaging our parents throughout her presentation. We were particularly impressed by her flair to facilitate parents’ reflection on the rationales behind their actions taken in educating their children. Having rich experiences of parent education, Miss Lee was skillful in diagnosing accurately the problems faced by parents nowadays and pinpointing precisely their blind spots in educating their children. Besides, she was able to provide our parents with insightful feedback on their queries. On the whole, we believe that parents after attending her talk would definitely be benefited from her expertise on coaching parents. -
Reassess priorities at home and redefine
effectiveness at work.An international professional advisory firmMs. Lee shared useful insights into what constitutes balanced and quality parenting in a way which was practical for our busy modern professionals. Exploring the characteristics of quality time and work-life balance encouraged our people to reassess priorities at home and redefine effectiveness at work.“ -
Positive EnergyMichael (father with a daughter aged 15)
I have a 16 weeks coaching sessions with Coach Lee with a goal to improve the relationship with my daughter, aged 15. Coach Lee shared with me her past working experience with the teens. During the process I have learned the common thinking and doings of the teens and subsequently I was assisted by Coach Lee to adjust the ways, and attitude to get along with my daughter. I was greatly impressed by Coach Lee's enthusiasm and professionalism during the coaching sessions. Her "positive energy” has given me and my family hopes and joy. -
家長的責任徐莉莉 (11歲及18歲兒子的媽媽)
「媽媽，你不要煩！」，「我不知道！」這些孩子的答話，令我十分困擾。在親子教練課程裏，我學識了家長的責任是培養孩子訂立自己的人生目標，不是我替他訂立目標，我因性急，往往在孩子未整理思絮，我便已替其擬定計劃，沒有給他鍛煉的機會。很多謝李教練指正我的缺點。 -
生活質素的改善夏先生 (3歲及1歲兒子的爸爸)
我的生活的質素改善了，不是因為我富裕了。而是我經過 Coach Lee 的 教練後，我漸漸可以融入兩個兒子的世界，現在我發現家裡的氣氛更祥和更開心；而不是冰冷、不安。在過去數月，我重新檢視自己既有的觀念，練習從多個不同角度看同一件事，我明白兒子及自己多一點！ -
孩子的幸福鄭太( 1歲及3歲孩子的媽媽)
在偶然的情況下得悉Coach Lee 的親子教練課程。上了第一堂後,我頓時開竅了，原來教練技巧的第一步是“站在孩子立場去看事情或聆聽孩子的心聲”，Coach Lee授課的態度專業及充滿能量。謝謝Coach Lee ,你真的啟發了我，我認定學習做親子教練，陪伴兩個孩子的成長，這是我兩個孩子的幸福。 -
開放的心Charmaine Lo
(8及10 歲女兒的母親)李導師提醒我要持一個開放的心，專心聆聽女兒的說話，以及言下之意，……不要為她設下太窄的框框，而要給予她空間探索和成長，並且要多用讚賞去發掘她的優點。我感到最開心的是，這些溝通技巧和心法不但適用於教養兒女上，更有助我平日與丈夫、朋友及同事的相處。 -
溝通的盲點何玉儀 (9歲女兒的媽媽)
李老師告訴我與女兒溝通的盲點，幫助我理解及瞭解女兒行為的背後原因。從前我教女是站在十字街頭，她猶如我導航儀，引領我在管教女兒方面訂立目標及逐步向著目標邁進；她亦全面兼顧我生活的各層面，她啟發我在夫妻關係、事業及財務各方面找到清晰的方向。 -
瞭解孩子的內心世界馮惠筠 (9歲及11歲兒子的媽媽)
我兩個兒子的行為及情緒問題實在令我非常困擾。在短短四個月的個別教練後, 我較有耐性與孩子溝通, 我學懂聆聽 , 為自己和孩子建立明確目標。李老師啟發我多作自我反省，有助我認清自己及瞭解孩子的內心世界。 -
Relationship with my kidsAngela (mother of
children aged 14 and 20)I enjoyed my 3 months’ coaching sessions with Lee. It is because when I shared my ups and downs in dealing with my kids, I got an active listener who understood my feelings so well. What I valued more is that Lee gave me honest feedback so that I could see the situations through the eyes of the kids. The coaching enables me to discover my blind spots in relating with my kids. Lee demonstrated her coaching expertise to help me identify my improvement areas. Now, I am confident that I can build harmonious and enjoyable relationship with my kids in the near future.